TOp 5 cultural surprises I experienced when I moved from El Salvador to the US
by Luis Magana, Partner Engagement Director
Moving to another country can come with cultural surprises. Even when you think you know a lot about the new culture, there may be unexpected social norms, traditions, or behaviors that can catch you off guard.
For me these were the top 5 cultural surprises that I experienced when I moved here:
Events usually start at the time listed on the invitation.
In El Salvador, events often start later than advertised, and it's considered normal to arrive fashionably late. However, in the US, events typically start at the exact time listed on the invitation, and being punctual is generally expected.
2. Asking who has the best BBQ is opening a can of worms.
As a food lover, I was excited to explore the BBQ scene in Kansas City. I quickly discovered that BBQ was taken very seriously, with different restaurants and enthusiasts claiming to be the best. Asking who has the best BBQ can spark a fun and heated debate between people.
3. Midwest weather is unpredictable.
In El Salvador, the weather is relatively predictable, with a consistent temperature throughout the year. However, in the Midwest, the weather can change rapidly and unexpectedly. One day it could be sunny and warm, and the next day, there could be a snowstorm. I had to learn to check the weather forecast before heading out, especially during the winter months.
4. Pajamas are acceptable while you shop.
One of the things that surprised me the most was seeing people wearing pajamas or other casual attire when shopping or running errands, even in major stores like Walmart. In El Salvador, people tend to dress more formally in public, so it was quite a culture shock to see people in their pajamas at the grocery store.
5. Intentionality counts more to establish a relationship with people.
In El Salvador, relationships are often more spontaneous and informal. However, in the US, people tend to value intentional efforts to build relationships, such as making plans to spend time together or sending thoughtful messages or gifts. I learned that it's essential to put effort into building relationships, and making plans in advance can be an excellent way to do so.
Moving to a new city is always challenging, but it's also a valuable experience that can broaden our perspectives and help us appreciate the world's diversity.
Every culture has its unique elements of beauty and brokenness. Working at Mission Adelante has allowed me to see firsthand the beauty in the diverse cultures represented in Kansas City, Kansas. I am learning to approach each new culture eager and excited to learn from their beauty.
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